Idea partner

Met up with a friend laste night, was chatting with her. Then she asks me what's my idea partner. Thought for awhile, after thinking through about all my ex boyfriends, these are what my idea partner should have.

1. Loves me more than I love him
2. Has to be tan and not fair
3. Shoulder lenght or best short hair
4. Good temper
5. Got his own mind and idea
6. Knows what he wants in life, his goals
7. Stable career, stable income
8. Loves his family and friends
9. Don't mind not having any children
10. Smoker and drinker or not it's okay, but have to accept that I am a smoker and drinker
11. Can accept my working schedules
12. Don't expect me to call him everyday to report my where abouts (I don't own anyone my life)
13. Must be manly
14. Loves my hobbies
15. Loves Me... Loves Me... Loves Me... Loves Me... Loves Me... Forever

Well, I guess it's not too hard to have the above as my idea partner right? Is it too much to ask for? I don't know anymore. Someone says I am too dependant on guys... am I? Whatever...